Family Mental Health Support Services

September 13, 2022
Mental Health Services

Supporting a Friend or Family Member with Mental Health Problems

Talking to friends and family about mental health problems can be an opportunity to provide information, support, and guidance. Learning about mental health issues can lead to:

Improved recognition of early signs of mental health problems
Earlier treatment
Greater understanding and compassion

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Finding out if the person is getting the care that he or she needs and wants—if not, connect him or her to help
Expressing your concern and support
Reminding your friend or family member that help is available and that mental health problems can be treated
Asking questions, listening to ideas, and being responsive when the topic of mental health problems come up
Reassuring your friend or family member that you care about him or her
Offering to help your friend or family member with everyday tasks
Including your friend or family member in your plans—continue to invite him or her without being overbearing, even if your friend or family member resists your invitations
Educating other people so they understand the facts about mental health problems and do not discriminate
Treating people with mental health problems with respect, compassion, and empathy

How to Talk About Mental Health

Do you need help starting a conversation about mental health? Try leading with these questions and make sure to actively listen to your friend or family member’s response.

I’ve been worried about you. Can we talk about what you are experiencing? If not, who are you comfortable talking to?
What can I do to help you to talk about issues with your parents or someone else who is responsible and cares about you?
What else can I help you with?
I am someone who cares and wants to listen. What do you want me to know about how you are feeling?
Who or what has helped you deal with similar issues in the past?
Sometimes talking to someone who has dealt with a similar experience helps. Do you know of others who have experienced these types of problems who you can talk with?
It seems like you are going through a difficult time. How can I help you to find help?
How can I help you find more information about mental health problems?
I’m concerned about your safety. Have you thought about harming yourself or others?

When talking about mental health problems:

Communicate in a straightforward manner
Speak at a level appropriate to a person’s age and development level (preschool children need fewer details as compared to teenagers)
Discuss the topic when and where the person feels safe and comfortable
Watch for reactions during the discussion and slow down or back up if the person becomes confused or looks upset

Glenn Close talks about her family's experience with mental health problems, and the importance of talking and learning about mental health issues. "I challenge every American family to no longer whisper about mental illness behind closed doors, " she said.

Sometimes it is helpful to make a comparison to a physical illness. For example, many people get sick with a cold or the flu, but only a few get really sick with something serious like pneumonia. People who have a cold are usually able to do their normal activities. However, if they get pneumonia, they will have to take medicine and may have to go to the hospital.

Similarly, feelings of sadness, anxiety, worry, irritability, or sleep problems are common for most people. However, when these feelings get very intense, last for a long period of time, and begin to interfere with school, work, and relationships, it may be a sign of a mental health problem. And just like people need to take medicine and get professional help for physical conditions, someone with a mental health problem may need to take medicine and/or participate in therapy in order to get better.

Source: www.mentalhealth.gov

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